Thursday, January 30, 2014

adios 2013, hola 2014! Faith Goals '13 & '14

        I reviewed my 2013 Faith Goals and I’d say that I have mostly achieved my bucket list. There were some few lapses but I guess there is always a room for improvement.

              On being a wife – I’d like to believe that it is still a work in progress. It was a year of adjustment for me and my husband. It’s not always mushy-sweetie all the time. There were some ugly squabbles and shouting match in between but the good thing is that my husband always tried his best to settle an argument before we sleep through the night.

As a housewife, there are still things that are all new to me. I hate cooking before but 2013 was a year for trial and error in the cooking department. I was able to cook meals for my husband and he told me I am good in mixing flavors.  However, I still need to improve in slicing and in making the kitchen spic and span among others.

            But 2013 was also the year that made our marriage stronger than ever. I miscarriage last March 2013 and it was a very heartbreaking experience for both of us. But with God’s love and mercy, we were able to move forward with a happy heart. We had more time with each other and we had a fun summer outing in the pristine beaches of Surigao.  Last November, we went to US and had seen the world in another perspective. It was a good experience for us travelling together.

On my Graduate Studies—Again, it’s a work in progress! It’s kind of slow but I am getting there. I had to limit my subjects 2nd sem of last year since that was also the time when I  had a difficult pregnancy which ended around 10 weeks.  I am done with all the course subjects and will take the comprehensive exam this May or after baby is out by July. Before, I set myself to finish it by the time I turn 30 but things change when I got married. I am now adjusting it to 32 or 33 instead.  How time rolls by but it’s perfectly alright. It’s all about priorities and my top most priority is my husband and our marriage.  

On my family— 2013 was a good year for all of us. My sister gave birth and my brother was ordained as a priest too. My other brother has a job and everything seems to be running smoothly in our household. Probably the sad moment was when our family dog named Misty passed away. Last December, we all touched base in our home sweet home and we are complete for the first time since 2010. 

On my spiritual growth- I’d say I am closer to God and I have established a strong relationship with Him. It is in HIM that I can completely open myself without barriers or judgment… I can tell Him my fears, of what’s bothering me and what is inside my heart. I also make it a point to pray the rosary every day although I missed a lot of times. That is something I need to work on. 

So, 2013 was indeed a great year for me.  I am looking forward for 2014 with a cheerful heart.
For 2014, my theme would be TIME and LOVE.  When you love, you have to give time… to God, to your  family, husband, friends, children, career among others.
As for me, I will be juggling a lot of things all at the same time this year; the birth of our baby love, my husband, my studies, friends and another big STEP or PLAN that my husband and I are really praying for. Ergo, I need to balance my TIME.

LOVE--- love, because when I love –everything else will follow!


                                Have a radiant 2014 to us all!    
radiant orchid! color of the year :)

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