Indeed, a happy 1st year of being in a loving relationship with you. Times flies so fast and now, I look back and smiled for we had created a truly wonderful relationship together. It might not be close to perfect but the best one indeed. Trials come and go and petty arguments always come in between but it somehow made us grow stronger and shaped us to become better person made perfect for each other.
We are both so different yet those crazy differences complement with each other. My being silent has helped you to be still at times, when everything else around is loud and deafening. When all we have to do is to sit still and listen to what beautiful rhythm silence could sometimes to do to us. On the other hand, your being fun and jolly has helped me to open up my world a little bit and enjoy being worry free when daily stressors in life kicks in.
In some ways, we both learn to strike the equilibrium together in this crazy world of ours.
You are the hero, I am your sidekick or I am the heroine, you are my sidekick. Whichever way you like it to be.
Though, I prefer the latter. Hehehe!
Based on my readings, a sidekick can provide one or multiple functions, such as a counterpoint to the hero, an alternate point of view, or knowledge, skills, or anything else the hero doesn't have. Sidekicks frequently serve as an emotional connection, especially when the hero is depicted as detached and distant.
I would like to believe that we are each other’s sidekick. We are there to help each other in striving to become better individuals.
On to some other note, we too had a very colourful past and along the way, I found out some things about you that would have sent me running halfway round the world to make sense of it all.
But I stayed, I listened and I perfectly understood because life is not perfect at all. It’s our flaws and our scarred past that made us beautiful persons now. I also had a taste of bitters’ past but I already let go of whatever clouds of doubt left inside my heart. It is time to close that chapter of our lives and begin a new, fresh start. Those people who have hurt us or whom we have hurt will always be part of our lives and we will always thank them for they have made us who we are today.
I am happy to have you in my life. I am glad that we find happiness in the smallest things. It is through the mundane things in life that we discover some bag of sheer happiness. Thank you for your unflagging love. Happy 1st anniversary to us! I LOVE YOU MOST!
(n.b. sorry for my unpredictable mood swings :(